Wednesday, 15 April 2015

10 Things Women Look for in Men


The way men carefully make their choices when it comes to “ Mrs Right” is the same way women look for outstanding qualities in their dream men. Honestly, it is better to marry a man with at least 70% of the qualities you desire in a man than to think you can change a man with 20% of what you want in him. Some women think they can change a man after marrying him. You lie. No one can change a man except God. So, if you are one of those women who want to change her man after marrying him, you better get ready for serious business. 
However, you as the man also need to brush up yourself, little things matter you know. But don’t worry, I will expose some of the things women look out for in their dream men. These will make you tighten up your belts to appeal to an average woman.

Kindly read through these few tips, I’m sure you’ll be glad you did.

Have a Charming Personality

A charming personality is everything, but yet it’s not something most men have. In fact, meeting a man who knows how to charm a girl is a hard task for any woman. Improve your body language around women and learn your manners around them. Don't talk too much and mind what you say even when you talk.

Ensure you have a Good Job and a Nice Salary

Now we’re getting shallow right? Trust me, it’s better to face the truth than pretend like money doesn’t matter. Of course it does! You like a sexy woman over an unattractive women. Women like rich guys over a poor ones. Be rich and drive a great car and you’ll have a huge advantage already. Its just an edge, but it’s not a guarantee that you will get your perfect soul mate.

Good Grooming

Dress well and look good no matter where you are. You never know when you’d bump into the woman of your dreams. It’s a simple tip, but something almost most guys never focus on. Groom yourself well with quality man products and complex perfumes that smells great on you. You know what I mean. 

Have a Good Sense of Humor

It takes less than a minute for a girl to know if a guy has a good sense of humor while having a conversation with him. And that’s all you need to impress a girl.

All girls know that a guy with a great sense of humor can be a lot of fun over dates or phone calls. Have a light hearted and fun approach towards life and try to look at the bright side all the time. You’ll draw women to you like moths to a flame.

Have a Good Physique 

Not every woman loves guys with biceps but definitely most women love men with good physique. When you work out, you look healthier and radiant, and clothes look good on you. If you want to attract a girl at first sight, you have to remember that appearances do matter. A lot.

Be Assertive in your Behavior

Women love a man who’s not fickle minded. Have an ego and believe in yourself and your decisions. As hard as this may seem, be the man who can put someone else in place when they overstep the line or misbehave with you.

Don't be a Pushover

A guy who’s a pushover is one of the worst kinds of men in the hierarchy of dating. A pushover is a guy who prefers to accept defeat just to avoid conflict with someone who’s dominating him. Don’t ever be taken for granted by anyone, be it your own friends or a colleagues. Have a spine and principles in life. If you feel you’re being wronged, learn to voice your opinion instead of being implosive.


Be a man who’s respected by others

Women like to be respected by the man they like, but they also like being with a guy who’s respected by others. If someone doesn’t respect you, is it your own fault? If it is, try to get better. If it isn’t your own fault, walk away from them. Or stand up and earn the respect you deserve from them.

Be Confident 

Confidence is a great trait to have for any man. It’s an inner strength that’s seen and envied by anyone you meet. A confident man is more attractive to women because he believes in himself and his abilities, and he doesn’t tuck tail and run when he knows he’s right.


A Compatible Personality

 Here’s a downer that you have to accept when it comes to understanding what women look for in a man. You may be a great guy, but at times both of you may just be way too incompatible for each other. She may like you, but she may not be willing to date you for her own reasons of compatibility. 

Hope these tips would work for you?
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